Traffic Thinker

As I was stuck in traffic this morning I had a epiphany. I have allot of these, so it isn't exactly something new for people that read my blogs.

I'm going to define a girl and woman next, you will understand why later. A girl is still stuck in high school mode, has no concept of responsibility, she isn't very intelligent, she doesn't know whats going around her and has no idea what she wants. A woman is intelligent, driven, knows what she wants, is aware of her surroundings and knows what responsibility means.

When scoping a female you can usually tell what kind of person they are in the first 10 minutes.

Usually when I'm about to go hit on a female I usually stand back and watch them for a bit. I like a woman who has confidence, one who isn't afraid to disagree, someone who can be your best friend and lover (awesome right). If she plays with her hair allot, is loud, in a group (might be afraid to sit by themselves), coloring a picture of her name, or just plain laugna beach looking; I outright bail on making a move. I like looking for a girl who is sitting alone (makes me think she is confident), she is reading a book, she is looking around her surroundings, preferably has her hair up, and one that is dressed business appropriate. I like business appropriate because I know she is confident, she can dress well (hollister is retarded), she probably isn't laugna beach material, and I think a girl that is covered up is more appealing than, than the girl that is in a mini skirt (more mysterious).

After you nail the approach and start talking to her is when you you can find out about them. If I hear the words um, yeah, like, and what allot I will bail. Eye contact is key when having a conversation with each other, shows me that she can hold her ground, and isn't a coward. I personally like asking open ended questions, so she can articulate herself. I love intelligent women who I can have a conversation with. The key is to make her do most of the talking, so she feels like you are listening (which I am if I'm at this point). Ask her about what she is interested in, hobbies, etc. After you know you have left an impression on her ask her if she would like to meet up sometime. If she accepts, get her number and the rest is a breeze, if you don't get it, just thank her for her time and bounce.