The First Kiss

Ahh the first kiss. You've been hanging out with someone for a few weeks and you like them... and you gotta make the move... The first kiss is usually a good indication of how well you connect. If you feel something, its golden. If not, try again with someone else. People get so stressed over just a simple kiss. But we all know its not "just" a kiss. Its often used as some sort of reference weather you'd date someone or not.

Now if you're like me, you know you gotta choose your time of attack well. I prefer to go for it during a more laid back, and comfortable hang out session.

Key signs!- Are both parties being flirty? Are you two having a good time? Is the other person relatively comfortable? DO NOT underestimate the comfort factor, its crucial. If alcohol is involved...BE CAREFUL. My always favorite signal is one that I have caught onto over many years... Change in voice. Girls voices get higher, guys voices get softer.

I find that the movie Hitch has A LOT of information useful for clueless people.


Situations...

A. You are staring into each others eyes- Holy shit it cant get easier than that... Its the biggest dead give away. GO FOR IT.

B. Someone is playing hard to get- Grab their neck from the back and gently pull them towards you. Do not do this if you're not confident. YOU MUST BE CONFIDENT.

C. Some how you instantly connect... and its like HOLY SHIT! KISS ME! I have never been in this situation, sounds something too hollywood-like. But you know what... whats the worst that could happen.

D. Your not sure- Go for it anyway...

Now there are some rules if you succeed. More than likely both of you will enjoy it. Sure sign is if you see a smile. NO SMILE=FAIL. But things will kinda progress from this...trust me. GO WITH THE FLOW. If you have to think about your next move, you might have failed... DO NOT OVER THINK! OVER THINKING=FAIL. Don't think. Everything falls in place on its own from this moment on.