How many times have you gotten the silent treatment and you don't know why? Women seem to do this all the time. How the hell is a guy supposed to know what he did if you don't talk!? Men in general are clueless about such things. We forget about most conversations within a few days, its just how our brains are programed.
My favorite approach of gaining information is asking the pissed off persons best friend. Most of the time you'll find the information you're looking for. When you don't find out though... its annoying as hell being treated as a child.
In those cases, I always like to confront. There will always be reluctance in the other party. They want to throw it out there, but they are trying to be in control of the situation and failing miserably. Women in general are emotional creatures that hold every word, gesture, or an argument from the past against a guy. I have a firm- If it happened in the past and it was settled... Don't bring it up again, rule. It never works, but I just ignore statements in regard to that and focus on the current situation.
Eventually, the grievance will come out, and you will roll your eyes because it wasn't a big deal to you. Every now and then though... the argument will be worth throwing your ideas, and feelings out there. In those situations you just have to say everything that you need to, listen, counter argue, and be done with it. It's not worth battling for hours when your talking to a wall.
So there... that's my advice about that.
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